Habits & life-hacks from the sleep communityTue 24 August 2021
Apparently, I use my friends to help me sleep
I reached out to people in sleep communities on facebook and reddit, and asked a couple of open-ended questions: What technologies/methods do you use to help you sleep at night? What do you wish was better?
The responses were varied and amazing! I’m copying them below for your viewing pleasure, followed by my analysis at the end:
- Headspace has changed my life so much. I have had anxiety disorder my entire life. I couldn’t sit through a movie. Had to be moving. Headspace has changed that. I can now fall asleep.
- I keep a calming aroma-pillow spray.
- Plants have completely changed my home. It feels relaxing, productive, and reminds me to both meditate, exercise and keep a good sleep schedule. So I would recommend plants in the home and the bedroom. I also recommend a strict sleep schedule.
- An eyemask for sure! I need it pure dark to sleep so that helps so much. I also have a lamp that I set to fade over 30–45 minutes so that I don’t stay up super late reading. It’s also a wakeup light (starts getting brighter over 30 minutes), which is nice and makes bird sounds which is peaceful to wake to. And I use a bluetooth headband to listen to the [Sleep With Me] podcast.
- I use this eye mask / headphone combo and I love it!
- I wish I could make a play list of [Sleep With Me podcast] episodes I like and listen to it on my Alexa.
- I started listening to the [Sleep With Me] podcast to get away from falling asleep to TV. I like to play this game (two dots) as I’m winding down and starting the podcast. i know screens aren’t great before bed but it calms my mind down and keeps me from scrolling on social media!
- I play a good old bubble popping game.
- I wish that there were sleep phones with softer speakers.
- Lavender linen spray. Dark room. Cold room. Meditative breathing.
- Three pairs generic wired sleep phones went to the big farm. Also, I did not like the sound on the bluetooth. I bought these MMUSS replacement wired phones to put in my head bands.
- I fall asleep instantly to these Headspace sleepcasts. (They are more visual than the [Sleep With Me] podcast.) Then later I put on an all night Sleep With Me episode.
- Fan and a white noise machine in addition to a few hours of Scoots [/Sleep With Me podcast].
- Tried a huge array of [sleep] masks including smart ones and fabric ones with specific eye cushions for $30+. Honestly, what has worked for me the best is a simple molded eye cup mask with nothing fancy. The molded eyecups are so that no fabric is touching your eyes/eyelashes as you’re trying to fall asleep. It is the most basic one($4.99) and it has been the most effective. I have one by my bed, in the car(as a passenger), and in my travel kit when I’m on planes and at the airport.
Very interesting responses! Let’s break them down into some categories.
Problems people deal with:
- Anxiety and/or inability to calm the mind.
- Inability to stick to regular sleep schedule.
- Bedroom not dark enough.
- The draw of social media scrolling at night.
Solutions & hacks people employ:
- Podcasts & “sleepcasts” (Sleep With Me or Headspace).
- Sleep mask with Bluetooth/wired “soft” headphones.
- White noise.
- Timer/smart lamps that fade out at night and up in the morning.
- Well fitted sleep mask / dark room.
- Pillow / linen spray (lavender, etc).
- Calming smartphone games (bubble popping, etc).
- Breathing exercises.
I think there is definitely a market here. In any case, I could certainly personally use a solution that helps keep me keep a strong sleep schedule and feel refreshed everyday, given my busy life!
Another interesting thing I noticed is that almost all the respondents were middle-aged women! Perhaps this is a sampling bias because most of them were from facebook, but I’ll keep a lookout to see if this pattern continues in my future research.